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Karen Left me all Alone!

Karen Left me all Alone!

August 18, 2016 Posted by Beate Rufft 2 Comments

Hello my friends,

Heather is gone….Karen is gone…who’s left at HATS you may wonder? Why it’s Beate!!!! Yes, Karen trusted me to be here alone with all the children. YIKES!! Thankfully Luckner is here checking on us a lot every day. So you may be wondering how I’m managing…how on earth is Beate coping??? Let me tell you…

For starters, we’ve changed up the routine around here quite a bit. After all, what do I know??? So, regarding cookies: JJ, Moise, Leica and Dieunel (the 4 oldest) have convinced me to give everyone FULL packs of cookies ???, 3 times a day. We also get up at 10 a.m., because we stay up so late playing UNO or Train (domino style game), and we had to push devotions until 11 because of this.

I also thought I’d help out by saving water at the compound. So rather than our daily showers, every afternoon, we all put on our swim suits and have a nice bath in the canal (Don’t worry Karen, I didn’t let the kids go Adam and Eve style; I made sure they were covered up). I did kind of forget that the kids don’t know how to swim, but that’s okay, they’re slowly getting the hang of it. Usually after our “canal bath,” and after drying off, we all jump into Karen’s truck, and I drive all the kids around town. We wave at all the people, singing and blasting the horn, and the people wave back shaking their heads and wondering what that woman is up to now??? So far I’ve managed not to hit any goats ? or tap taps en route. Sometimes I let Little Jonathan or Anne take the wheel while Sandra and Jofky work the gas and brakes… they totally have the hang of driving Haitian style.

Okay, I’m sure you’ve all come to realize that I’m being silly here…that’s just who I am ? winking. In all honesty, I am so loving my time here with the children. Karen doesn’t have to worry about a thing. The worst thing that has happened so far is Jonathan stubbing his toe this morning, and I needed to get a bandaid for him. JJ has been a huge help, as has Moise. THEY certainly have the routine down pat. Actually, Karen and Luckner have done such a fantastic job over the years, that this place runs like a well oiled machine. And besides, Luckner is always here with the construction going on and getting things ready for school…So, I’m not really doing this on my own at all…baby steps for Beate!

What an enormous task that must have been indeed: getting HATS to where it is today!!!! However, Karen knew long ago that she couldn’t just come to Haiti, set up a children’s home “North American style” and expect Haitians to do things “our” way. She has more respect for the Haitians than that, and she clearly understands that in order to make a difference, one just cannot come in and take over. Change happens slowly (keeping in mind that not everything has to change).

So it is my pleasure, my deep heartfelt pleasure, to be back in this country. To be back at HATS, to help the house mothers with the kids, to help do some administration work for Karen, and to help Luckner with the school in what ever small way I can.

I’ve added some pictures of our “real routine” for you to enjoy. Many hugs…

~Beate

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Pretend fishing. No one has gotten muddy yet (at time of publication Dickieson got a wee bit on himself)
Pretend fishing. No one has gotten muddy yet (at time of publication Dickieson got a wee bit on himself)
Hellllooooooo Moise
Hellllooooooo Moise
Ok time to bring figs (aka bananas) down for a snack
Ok time to bring figs (aka bananas) down for a snack
Jonathan is very proud of our efforts
Jonathan is very proud of our efforts
Who knew how skilled Jofky is with the dust pan???
Who knew how skilled Jofky is with the dust pan???
Time for a distraction eh Leica???
Time for a distraction eh Leica???
Interesting to see who is really a good cleaner (Judel)
Interesting to see who is really a good cleaner (Judel)
Well...some kids are better off playing quietly while the others work
Well…some kids are better off playing quietly while the others work
Magdala looks shocked!!! Say what??? The kids are cleaning????
Magdala looks shocked!!! Say what??? The kids are cleaning????
Ti Fi is getting a mani-pedi from Beate. With assistance from beauty crew
Ti Fi is getting a mani-pedi from Beate. With assistance from beauty crew
Karena and Anne are expert sweepers
Karena and Anne are expert sweepers
Boys just chilling
Boys just chilling

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About Beate Rufft

Beate Rufft, was introduced to Hands Across the Sea and our founder, Karen Huxter in 2010, after seeing the devastation of the earthquake and wanting to volunteer in the country. An elementary school teacher in Ontario, Beate has previously worked with homeless children in Columbia and orphans in El Salvador. Beate is currently serving as Board Secretary and travels to Haiti each year. She is a proud to support the vital work that HATS does for the children and families in the community of Deschapelles.

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  • Sandra
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    August 19, 2016 at 5:37 AM

    Oh Beate, you made me laugh as I pictured what you had written actually happening! Have fun, I know you will work hard, but I guess it is impossible to be there with all those kids and not have fun! Thank you for all you do for HATS.

  • Keith
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    August 20, 2016 at 6:40 AM

    Hilarious.
    Karen can’t comment…. she probably had a heart attack reading this.
    Enjoy the time you have left.

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